Guy on Guy

Guy on Guy Sex

We all wish that the days of homosexuality being taboo and unaccepted were over, but the truth is that the world is always slow to change. But while everyone else works to combat their own ignorance on issues, you have bigger fish to fry – like figuring out how to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom.

Any type of sex can become mundane. It doesn’t rightly matter if it’s straight sex, homosexual sex, or even group sex. Doing the same things over and over again can really be tedious and really work to kill the sex drive. That’s why it’s important to explore the many options available to you in the bedroom. And in terms of things to try out, there are no limitations with guy-on-guy sex. Just because a sexual relationship comprises two members of the same sex does not mean that there are fewer options. You just need to realize the different types of things you can try.

Keeping Things Spicy

Just as straight couples need to work on their intimacy and find something new and exciting from time to time, so too do homosexual couples. There is a misconception out there about homosexuality. Some believe that because men obviously know what pleases men, that homosexual relationships are a breeze and the sex is always killer. This isn’t the case always; and in fact, it might not be the case at all for some individuals.

Although the prostate can be stimulated through anal penetration, the only other real erogenous zone on a man outside of the penis is unfortunately the mind. Mental stimulation is very important in a homosexual relationship. Some men have sensitive areas like nipples, the inside of their thighs, earlobes, their neck, etc, but sensitive in men doesn’t equal erogenous like with women.

Unfortunately, men were blessed with very limited areas of arousal, and that’s why mental stimulation is one of the best ways to keep things spicy in the bedroom. Things like role-playing, domination/submissive and trying out new sexual methods can all improve the sex tremendously.

Sexual Positions

There’s really no need to type out a long list of all the many sexual positions men can try with other men. The absence of a vagina does not limit the number of sexual positions, although many men believe it does. But if you can do it with a woman, you can essentially do it with a man, so all those many positions in the kama sutra—as a quick example of a positions guide—can be tried with men.

The difference, of course, is that vaginal intercourse is substituted with anal intercourse. But even that doesn’t have to be case if you don’t want it to be. There are many different adult sex toys you can try out to increase the pleasure of sex for you and your partner, and we’ll touch on them in a lot more detail below.

Toys to Try

The great thing about toys as they pertain to guy-on-guy sex is that you can use the entire gamut to please one another, whereas women won’t be able to get the same kind of pleasure from toys like penis sleeves and other similar toys.

Masturbators

One of the advantages of straight sex in terms of how the penis is stimulated is the texture of a vagina. The skin of the inner vaginal walls is incredibly soft, much, much more so than the rectal walls or even the inside of a mouth. So even homosexual men would really enjoy such a textural experience given by a masturbator toy that mimicked the feel of a vagina; the wide range of these masturbator toys is astonishing.

Sue Johanson’s Super Head Honcho, for example, won toy of the year and is considered one of the most realistic sex toys out there. Pleasing your partner with this instead of with your hand on a reach-around will introduce an experience like no other he has ever experienced. In fact, you’ll probably live to be on the receiving end with such a sensation. And this particular toy is only the tip of the iceberg. There are hundreds like this out there.

Dildos/Vibrators

Sure, there are a lot of fancy women’s-only vibrators out there with clitoral attachments and the like, but most of the phallic-shaped toys can be used by men to spice things up. As you can imagine, there are thousands of options you can choose from when it comes to a dildo or a vibrator. The possible positions increase exponentially when you introduce a way to penetrate your partner while simultaneously being pleased. A toy like the Rascal Ream Beam is a great addition to a relationship when you feel like getting a little naughty.

Prostate Massagers

The prostate is incredibly sensitive. In fact, it is likened to a woman’s g-spot in terms of sensitivity. It is harder for a man to climax from prostate stimulation alone, but coupled with direct penile contact a prostate massager with a little oral can give your guy the orgasm of his life. There are dozens of prostate massagers you can choose from.

Other Toys

You will also be able to find a wide assortment of butt plugs, anal beads, and even toys that stimulate the anus and the genitals simultaneously. Homosexual men have not been left out the sex toy craze, and that’s certainly good news for any couple looking to really heat things up in the bedroom.

The important thing to remember with guy-on-guy sex is that it never has to be bland or boring. As long as you introduce a little fun into the equation, and possibly a great toy or two, sex can be taken to new heights. And in any relationship between any partners, the better the sex is, the healthier the overall relationship is.

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