Multiple Orgasms

Understanding Multiple Orgasms

An orgasm is certainly simple enough to understand. It is the peak of sexual satisfaction – the climax. But the way we experience orgasms as genders are different. Women, for example, can experience multiple orgasms – sexual peaks that arise one after the other during the same relative period during a sexual encounter. Men, on the other hand, are prisoners of biology, only able to have one orgasm. Right?

Wrong! Actually, men can enjoy multiple orgasms just like women can, but it takes a little more focus, practice and know-how. You see, women can have multiple orgasms at any time, assuming a woman is properly satisfied. But as intensely as a man could possibly be satisfied, he is limited to one orgasm if ejaculation occurs.

Multiple Orgasms in Men

As we touched on up top, ejaculation is what biologically keeps men from experiencing the type of sexual pleasure that women are able to experience regularly. Because of the way the male body is constructed, having an orgasm usually means ejaculation, and the body’s ejaculate is the signal for the penis to relax and for the body to become tired, convalescing almost.

Ejaculation is the obstacle that holds men back. If not for that, men could experience multiple orgasms. So, it stands to reason that if you can train your body and mind not to ejaculate during sex, you can experience the orgasms without actually “finishing” the sexual session. Of course, this is a lot easier said than done. Even with ample practice, the male body is predisposed to chase after an orgasm, to ejaculate, and then to roll over and go to sleep without cuddling.

Okay, not exactly like that, but close enough!

Achieving Multiple Orgasms

In order to achieve multiple orgasms in men, all men have to be incredibly conscious of what they’re trying to accomplish. This is going to take some serious restraint, a ton of practice, squeezing and patience techniques, and a willingness to let go during sex – to have sex for the emotional pleasure and not only the physical satisfaction.

If that sounds a little cheesy, don’t worry about it too much. You should read the Easternized version of it.

Multiple orgasms in men are a result of tantric sex activity, and this means you must familiarize yourself with some Indian spiritual traditions, or at least variations on them. Below, we will go over some points you should focus on and then elaborate on them separately to explain how they pertain to you and multiple orgasms.

•    Practicing for the Payoff

•    Building Your Stamina

•    Boosting Mental Strength and Physical Response

•    Balancing Your Urges

•    Holding Off on the Feeling

Practicing for the Payoff

Now, this is something all you men should love. You will need something to practice on. Someone to practice on would be even better, but good luck finding a partner willing to put up with you as you practice trying to refrain from ejaculating. Some men will have a willing partner, and they’re definitely lucky, but the rest of us will have to exercise our rights to self-love. Using something like the Tenga Egg or anything similar is a great way to experience a true-to-life textural experience to practice with. Just follow the subsequent steps below.

Building Your Stamina

The idea here is to reach the height of climax without ejaculating. As you begin to hold back your ejaculation—physically and mentally—you will reach closer and closer to climax without ejaculating. Eventually, you will be able to reach the very peak of climax, pull back, and experience an orgasm without actually ejaculating. The end result is a sexual experience wherein you can achieve multiple orgasms in a short time frame without ever ejaculating. This obviously requires building up your stamina, and this is where the first step (above) really helps you.

Boosting Mental Strength and Physical Response

As you practice on building your stamina, you also have to remember that it requires mental strength to be able to hold back and also to know when you’re about to climax, as well as an intuitive feeling about your physical response. Ejaculating is very physical, whereas an orgasm is a blend of the emotional and physical. As you practice, you need to focus on learning your physical response.

For example: Say that you’re with your lover (or with your Turbo Stroker – either way) and are about to reach climax. You should slow down and take your time to feel what your body is going through. You will notice how the muscles in your penis and pelvic region begin to tense up. You will feel that wonderful fluttery feeling of a pending orgasm. And once you learn to recognize these physical responses, you can begin to ultimately learn when to pull back, getting closer and closer each time.

You’re going to overshoot the target a few times, no doubt, but keeping at it will help you learn how to achieve orgasms without ejaculating.

Balancing Your Urges

Your urges here are very instrumental to the end result. As you push closer and closer to orgasm, your natural inclination is to keep going. Learning how to balance these feelings, you will ultimately be able to enjoy the sensation of the orgasm without experiencing ejaculation. Again, this is where practice comes in handy.

Holding Off on the Feeling

This last step is perhaps the most important if you want to achieve multiple orgasms as a man. It is important that you hold off on the feeling of an orgasm – or at least on what you know of as an orgasm. Those feelings you receive, like we touched on above, are all part of the orgasmic response in men. Obviously biology was kind to us. Trees don’t make the O face when they drop their seeds, but having an orgasm for us is one of the most wonderful feelings in existence. We are trained to go after it, not to shy away from it. So you need to hold off on the feeling of immediate satisfaction, used what you’ve learned above, and ultimately work to achieve those orgasmic feelings for a prolonged period of time without ejaculating.

Once you have mastered the steps—reaching the peak, holding back, embracing the feeling and balancing your urges—you will reach your own personal utopia – you will come so close to an orgasm that you will actually have one. Your body will be trained not to ejaculate at this point, as long as you stay extremely cognizant of what you’re out to do, and you will experience all the feelings of a breathtaking orgasm without the end result of ejaculation.

An important point to remember is that achieving multiple orgasms during sex is more something to aspire to than it is an end goal. The truth is that it is difficult for a man to have multiple orgasms, but with total self control, it is possible.

Learning about tantric sex in general can be incredibly rewarding. Not only will you learn new positions and techniques, but you will open the door to exploring the human body through massage techniques, breathing exercises, and much more. All in all, the process of learning to control your orgasm should be the real achievement.

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